Sean Roche posted a thought provoking piece about a house selling for more than a $1,000,000 on his street.  I’m going to steal his title and get even more personal.

My family  moved to Newton almost 10 years ago and I absolutely love it here.  I have settled in and got involved in this community in a way that I never had at any previous address.  I love our house, our neighborhood, my neighbors and the whole city of Newton.  In fact I love just about everything about this place except for one thing, and it is a big one.

We bought our house in Upper Falls in 2009 for $325,000.  It was pretty much the cheapest single family house in Newton at the time. 

That house we bought less than 10 years ago is listed today at $632,000 with an estimate that it will be at $666,000 a year from now.  During those same 10 years the median income in the US has barely budged ($57,393 – $59,039) yet the price of this house has nearly doubled ($325,000 – $632,000).

So good for us!  What’s not to like?  We found a wonderful way to significantly increase our personal wealth while our income stayed about the same.  That is definitely a great thing for us and I’m immensely grateful.

So where’s the down side for anyone?  And what is the one thing I don’t like about living in Newton?

Our most important job is to raise our daughter.  When we moved to Newton she was entering the first grade and she’s a teenager now.   I think one of the most important jobs as a parent is fostering empathy in your kids, teaching them that not everyone is as fortunate as they are – whether its health, or intelligence, or talent or wealth – people with less of any of those are just as important people as they are.  Part of the way you do that is to make sure your kids connect with all kinds of kids.

Now when it comes to wealth that’s a problem.  As a kid growing up in Newton your perspective of what is normal, what is average, what is wealthy, what is poor is completely skewed and its getting more skewed every year.

We’re rapidly approaching the situation where the “poorest” people living in Newton will be those that are in the top 10% of wealth in the country.  Pretty much the only reason we’re not there already is because it takes a good long time (roughly a generation) to turn over all the housing stock to the  next round of buyers that can pay those wildly appreciated prices.

What’s the answer to all that.  Damned if I know.  But what I do know is that it is a radical transformation of the city, its essence and its personality.  What I do know is that as a parent it makes it much harder to instill a healthy perspective on the wider world in our children.   What I do know is that its the one thing about living in Newton that I don’t like and that it will continue to get worse.

There’s a lot of folks here in my neighborhood in Upper Falls that pre-date all of this.  They grew up in this neighborhood back when it was full of modestly priced houses for bus drivers, and teachers,and carpenters, and plumbers, and city workers, and nurses ….  There are other neighborhoods around the city that are similar  Those folks are all getting older and when they are all gone something terribly important will be lost in our city.

As my wife just said “Upper Falls was built as a mill village with a few mill owners living here and the rest mill workers.  Soon it will all be ‘mill owners’ “

What’s to be done?  I’m not sure but I think the first step is to clearly face what is happening and consider what it will mean to live in a city of only the wealthiest 10% or 5% of citizens.  What are the implications of that?  Is that what we are all striving for as we cheer our rising house prices?  If not, we better begin planning today how to prevent Newton from becoming a homogeneous enclave of only the wealthiest.